Many people's New Year's Resolutions last as long as celebrity marriages. According to a recent article in the Huffington Post, the three most common resolutions are to lose weight, save more money, and spend more time with family. By February these people will be crying into their pint of Haggen Dazs after they've spent all their money to have their loved ones removed from their will. I have never been one for making resolutions (in part because I know I won't keep them), but I think I've come up with a few I can work with.
In the year 2012 I resolve to eat more chocolate. Not just any chocolate, but the good kind. The kind of chocolate that's so rich and creamy you get love handles the minute you swallow it. The kind of chocolate that you won't share with your kids because it's too good and they wouldn't appreciate it. I figure if I will be eating sweets anyway (and let's face it, I will be eating sweets), I might as well make it worth the calories. I resolve to enjoy what I eat.
This year I resolve to spend more time away from my family. Being a stay-at-home mom means you're always available for whatever anyone needs you to do. Your family seems to think that because you don't have a regular job that you need to be at during certain hours, your time is theirs. This, of course, is a ton of malarkey, if only because you are now so busy doing what no one else has time to do--return the library books, walk the dog, have a nervous breakdown while sobbing into your pint of Haggen Dazs. I resolve to tell my family "no" more often and spend more time on what I want to do. (If necessary I will hide at undisclosed locations--if you see me lurking in the back of Starbucks in a wig and fake mustache, mums the word.)
Lastly, this new year I resolve to not worry about money. Yes, I should be putting more aside for retirement and, yes, just because my son has C in math doesn't make a college fund unnecessary, but this is what financial advisers are for. Saving for the future so you're not sixty-five and eating dog food (while sharing a mobile home with your unemployable child) is all well and good. Preparing for the future is great, but enjoying your present is important, too. What good is a well funded retirement if we never went on vacation? Who needs a well-educated daughter who never calls because you never once splurged on that treat? I resolve to enjoy what money we have to spend.
New Year's resolutions are too easy to make and too hard to keep. We all want to be better people, but what's wrong with the person you are now? Besides, if the whole Mayan calendar is right, we're all off the hook, anyway.